Can't Afford a Medium? You Don't Need a Psychic to Contact Your Loved Ones on the Other Side

Connecting with a departed loved one doesn’t always require a psychic medium. In fact, with a little guidance, intention, and openness, you can cultivate this connection in the comfort of your own home.

First of all, I found myself getting in my own way a lot when I was first trying to contact my brother on the other side. I kept thinking I would be able to “hear” him with my ears, or even “see” him with my eyes.

But the only sense necessary for us to make contact is our imagination. I know what you’re thinking: “So it’s just in my imagination?” And the answer is, simply: YES.

Think about it: whatever and wherever THE OTHER SIDE is, it’s right here. It’s another dimension that exists right alongside ours. At least, that’s what I believe. And just like you can be right where you are, reading this right now, you can also imagine yourself in another place, doing something completely different. Right?

We’ve been programmed to think that messages from the other side have to be tangible, and I’m not saying they’re not! But spirit uses what it has to communicate with us, and depending on who you ask, that’s going to be something like our intuition.

When I am calm, quiet, and meditative, my mind gets still. And when my mind is still, I can sometimes feel or think things that don’t seem to originate with me. Sure there’s also tons of straight up garbage that flows through, but when I meditate with an intention to connect to the other side, and I take steps to make that more likely (see below) I find I am able to very easily slip into that “place” where contact is effortless.

I’ve got two tutorials for you below: one is to set up a deal with your loved one on the other side: they’ll bring you signs, and you’ll recognize them. The second is about making direct contact, which takes a bit more focus and practice. Note that before my brother died, I had been a meditator for eight years, using the Vipassana or Insight method. So I think that helped me a lot when it came to stilling my mind so I can make contact with my brother on the other side.

Inspired by the words of Laura Lynne Jackson in her book, "Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe," here’s a comprehensive tutorial to help you set intentions and recognize the signs from your loved ones on the other side.

1. Setting Intentions for Recognizing Signs:

Step 1: Find a Quiet Space – Choose a place where you feel at peace and won’t be disturbed. This could be a cozy corner of your home, a garden, or even a serene park.

Step 2: Deep Breathing – Start with a few minutes of deep breathing to calm your mind and body. Feel yourself becoming grounded and present.

Step 3: Be Specific with Your Intent – Think of a specific sign you wish to receive from your loved one. It could be a specific animal, a particular song, a certain number, or even a coin.

Step 4: Meditation & Visualization – Close your eyes and visualize your loved one. Ask them, in your mind, to show you the sign you’ve chosen. Feel their presence and the love they have for you.

Step 5: Trust and Let Go – After setting your intention, release any expectations. Trust that you’ll receive the sign when the time is right.

Don’t forget to thank your loved one when you see a sign! They are eager to make contact, and they will absolutely feel your gratitude when it happens.

And here’s a method for inducing the kind of contact a medium might make.

2. Making Direct Contact With a Deceased Loved One:

Step 1: Create the Atmosphere – Light some candles or incense, dim the lights, and play soft, evocative music that relaxes your mind. I think it’s best to try this very early in the morning, just as the sun is coming up, or in the early evening, just as the sun is setting. Both of these settings provide a sense of transition or openness, I think.

Step 2: Grounding Exercise – Sit comfortably and take deep breaths. Feel the connection between your body and the Earth. This will help you center your energy. I like thinking of space all around me on all sides, even beneath me deep down into the earth. I see myself as surrounded by open, limitless space, all the way out into the distant stars.

Step 3: State Your Prayer of Intention – Say aloud or in your mind: "Dear gods, guides, and friends on the other side: anyone dedicated to the light, please collaborate with me. I wish to send and receive messages from _______ with the highest intentions for love, light, and growth."

Step 4: Call Out to Your Loved One – Clearly state their name. Picture them in your mind. I say to my brother, “Hey, do you want to hang out with me?” Then I wait for a few moments until I feel a difference in my state of mind. A slight lift, or a shift. That means he’s joined me, energetically.

Step 5: Ask Your Questions – While I think it’s fine to ask questions like, “Who was there to greet you when you crossed over?” or “What are you doing over there?” I think the best use of your time with your loved one on the other side is discussing what you’re going through. They want to help you with your grief, but also with your life! You can tap into the deep bond that you have and ask them to be a collaborator in your life. Not sure what to do about a relationship? Feeling anxiety and stress about something? Ask for help! That’s what they want.

Step 6: Listen for Immediate Answers – If you get a response before you even finish formulating your question, it’s a good sign you’ve established a connection. My brother interrupts me a lot. That’s because as soon as I think of what I want to say, it’s already been communicated. That’s just how it works on the other side. Your intention to connect means you’re connected!

You probably won’t “hear” their voice, but it will often seem like you will just get thoughts that don’t feel like your own. My brother “talks” to me in a sort of dry, humorous tone. That’s how I know it’s him. But I don’t hear his voice in my ears like I might someone in the other room. Instead, it’s telepathic communication. At first I didn’t trust it because I thought, “it’s just me making it up in my own head!” But remember: that is the venue for our connection — our imagination! Trust that and keep an open heart.

Step 7: Conclude and Express Gratitude – After your session, thank your loved one and any other spiritual guides for their messages and presence. It’s essential to acknowledge and show gratitude for their effort and energy.

Final Note: Remember, the key is to approach this with an open heart and mind. There will be times when you might not receive a sign or message, and that’s okay. The spiritual realm operates beyond our understanding of time and space. Keep practicing, stay patient, and trust the journey. With time and dedication, you’ll find yourself forming deeper connections and understanding the language of the universe better.

Let me know if you try either of these methods and if you’re able to make contact with someone who has died. And keep in mind, this is a process and a practice that you’ll get better at over time. I believe in you!

The Transcendent Touch: Feeling the Presence of the Departed

In the midst of the darkest nights of grief, countless people have reported a phenomenon that acts as a glimmer of hope: the sensation of being touched or embraced by their departed loved ones. While skeptics may brush these experiences off as mere coincidences or psychological mechanisms to cope with loss, the sheer number and consistency of such accounts raises a compelling question: What if these experiences are genuine?

The tangible sensation of an after-death touch, a squeeze of the hand, a brush on the cheek, or a gentle hug, is a common theme that runs through many grieving individual's accounts. If so many are claiming these experiences, and they overwhelmingly provide solace, then perhaps the bigger question is, why not believe?

1. Sarah's Embrace

Sarah, a young mother who lost her teenage son in a tragic accident, recounted an experience she had a few weeks after his passing. She was lying in bed, tears streaming down her face, questioning the meaning of life without him. Just as despair threatened to engulf her, she felt a pressure around her waist - as if someone was hugging her. She immediately recognized the touch as her son's. It lasted for a few seconds, but it brought an immense feeling of peace and closure.

2. Brian's Whispered Comfort

Brian's grandmother was the cornerstone of his life. When she passed away, he was lost. One evening, as he sat in her now empty bedroom reminiscing, he felt a distinct hand brush through his hair, much like how she used to when he was a child. Along with this comforting gesture, he also felt a warmth as if she was right there beside him, offering solace.

3. Maria's Midnight Visitor

Maria lost her husband to a prolonged illness. Accustomed to caring for him day in and day out, she found the nights after his death exceptionally long and lonely. One night, while she was tossing and turning, she felt a distinct pressure on her side, as if someone was lying down next to her. She could feel the contour of a body, a comforting weight. Though startled, she sensed it was her husband, providing the same warmth he used to in life.

4. Alok's Guiding Hand

Alok lost his sister in their early adulthood. The grief was unbearable. But during a trip abroad, while crossing a bustling street, Alok felt a very distinct tug at his wrist, pulling him back just in time to avoid an oncoming vehicle. He turned around to thank the person, but there was no one there. The sensation was identical to the way his sister would grab his wrist when they were children, ensuring his safety. He took it as a sign that she was still watching over him.

5. Hannah's Dance Partner

Hannah and her father shared a special bond through dancing. They would often dance together during family gatherings. After he passed away, during a particularly poignant song at a family wedding, Hannah felt a hand gently take hers, and another at the small of her back. She danced the entirety of that song, feeling guided, held, and, most importantly, loved.

While science might be tempted to explain these sensations away as byproducts of grief or manifestations of longing, the commonality and specificity of such experiences are hard to ignore. But, perhaps most crucially, the overwhelming sense of peace, closure, and healing that these moments bring to the grieving makes them invaluable.

Whether it's the universe's way of offering comfort, the soul's mechanism of seeking closure, or genuinely the touch of our departed loved ones reaching out from the other side, the essence of these experiences lies in the emotional and spiritual healing they offer. If these sensations, these touches from the beyond, can alleviate the crushing weight of grief, even if just for a moment, then they hold an immeasurable value.

For many, believing in these experiences isn't a matter of logic or empirical evidence but a leap of faith. A faith rooted in love, memories, and the timeless bonds we share with those we've lost. And if these moments of transcendent touch offer even a modicum of comfort, then truly, what is there to doubt or fear? Even if they exist solely in the realm of imagination and belief, their healing power remains undiminished.

In the grand tapestry of life and death, these moments serve as gentle reminders of the indomitable spirit of love – a love that refuses to be constrained by the boundaries of life, death, and the realms beyond.

Beyond the Veil: How Loved Ones Reach Out

After-Death Communication

In the quiet moments following the loss of a loved one, an emotional chasm often forms, echoing with a silence that's deafening. But what if that silence was not as complete as we thought? What if those who've passed on were still trying to communicate with us? Across cultures, the notion of after-death communication—receiving signs from the afterlife and messages from the other side—has been a source of comfort and curiosity for many. This idea is not just born from age-old folklore and rituals, but from modern experiences and testimonials shared by people around the globe.

SIGNS by Laura-Lynn Jackson:

Among the contemporary proponents of this idea is Laura-Lynn Jackson, a psychic medium whose book, "SIGNS: The Secret Language of the Universe," delves deep into this phenomenon. In her poignant narrative, Jackson beautifully weaves her personal experiences with heartwarming stories of others who have received signs from their departed loved ones. The book does more than just share stories; it offers readers a lens to view the world differently, to see it as a place where the boundaries between life and death are permeable. One review notably praises the book as “a bridge to understanding the subtle, yet powerful, connections that bind us to the other side.”

Examples of Signs from "SIGNS":

Jackson relays numerous experiences in her book. One particularly touching account is of a mother who lost her son. She kept finding pennies in the most unexpected places following his passing. While this might seem coincidental to some, to her, it was her son's way of saying he was still around, still watching over her. Another story speaks of a grieving individual who constantly dreamed of receiving text messages from their deceased loved one. These dreams, vivid and real, became a source of solace in their grieving process.

Signs in Pop Culture:

The idea of receiving signs isn't limited to books or personal testimonials; it permeates popular culture. Celebrities, often with their lives laid bare, have occasionally shared their own mysterious experiences. For instance, the famed Paul McCartney once shared that after asking for a sign from his late mother, he dreamt of her. She told him everything would be alright, inspiring his song "Let It Be."

Netflix's LIFE AFTER DEATH:

Expanding on this concept, Netflix's documentary series "LIFE AFTER DEATH" dedicates an entire episode to the theme of signs. The episode interviews several individuals, each describing their unique experiences with the other side. One poignant example is of a widow who, while visiting her husband's grave, would often find the same type of butterfly fluttering nearby. She took it as a sign from him, a reassurance of his enduring presence.

How to Ask Your Departed Loved Ones for a Sign:

If you feel drawn to this concept and yearn for a connection with someone you've lost, consider reaching out for a sign. Here's a simple guide:

1. Find a Quiet Space:

Solitude and silence often make it easier to sense subtle signs.

2. Speak Aloud or Mentally:

Directly address your loved one. Express your feelings, your wishes, and explicitly ask for a sign if you're comfortable. On the other side, we communicate telepathically, so this is the best way to send your message.

3. Be Open and Patient:

Signs can be subtle or might not come immediately. It could be a familiar scent, a song on the radio, a dream, or even a feeling.

4. Keep a Journal:

Document your experiences. Over time, patterns may emerge, reinforcing your belief in the signs you're receiving.

5. Trust Yourself:

Skepticism is natural, but trust in your feelings and experiences. The comfort and connection are what truly matter.

In conclusion, the universe is filled with mysteries that go beyond our comprehension. Whether you're a believer in after-death communication or just intrigued by the possibilities, it's undeniable that countless individuals find solace and meaning in these ethereal experiences. As Laura-Lynn Jackson beautifully expresses in her book, there is a language that exists beyond words, one that communicates through signs, offering comfort, love, and the enduring bond that exists beyond the veil.